I Know It’s Over by C.K. Kelly Martin
Published: 9-23-08 by Random House
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PURE. UNPLANNED. PERFECT. Those were Nick’s summer plans before Sasha stepped into the picture. With the collateral damage from his parents’ divorce still settling and Dani (his girl of the moment) up for nearly anything, complications are the last thing he needs. All that changes, though, when Nick runs into Sasha at the beach in July. Suddenly he’s neck-deep in a relationship and surprised to find he doesn’t mind in the least. But Nick’s world shifts again when Sasha breaks up with him. Then, weeks later, while Nick’s still reeling from the breakup, she turns up at his doorstep and tells him she’s pregnant. Nick finds himself struggling once more to understand the girl he can’t stop caring for, the girl who insists that it’s still over.
I was interested in reading this book because it’s a teen pregnancy story from the guy’s point of view, which is something I’ve never read before. I learned that if it’s a book from a male POV where sex takes place, I should read reviews 1st. Teenage guy protagonists aren’t my favorite.
- abortion – I do have to give the author credit for exploring abortion as an option for Sasha. No matter how you feel about abortion, it’s a realistic touch. I don’t know what the laws are in Canada though, which is where this book takes place.
- Nick – The only thing motivating most of the decisions in Nick’s life is sex. He has a friend he’s not into, but she’s willing to do sexual things with him, so he decides that’s perfectly fine – ideal even. Yuck! I disliked Nick. I couldn’t relate to him, and his decisions were generally terrible.
- Sasha – It’s extremely hard to read about Sasha because she is incapable of deciding what she wants. She is back and forth over whether or not she wants a relationship with Nick for the entire time they are together. She is not a strong-willed character in the least. I was too busy being mad at her to care about what she wanted.
- all the parents in this book – Nick’s parents are finishing up their divorce. Nick’s dad is ok in one scene – when he really listens to Nick and helps get him what he needs. Besides that, he’s a jerk. He gives his son cash for condoms instead of talking to him about his relationship. Nick’s mom barely reacts to the fact that her son got a girl pregnant. Sasha’s dad decides to stop talking to his daughter. What kind of support is that? Yeah, sure, be upset and angry – but to stop talking to your pregnant daughter is just about the least helpful thing I can think of.
- decision – When Sasha decided what she was going to do in regards to the baby, it seemed so quick and easy. The way Sasha was portrayed, I expected her to agonize over a decision and take awhile to decide what the right choice was for her. Then Nick doesn’t question that decision, or try to give Sasha his opinion. I don’t even know if he had an opinion.
- “Anyway, high school is just a stopover,” Holland added. “It has nothing to do with what’s really happening.” “Let’s hope not,” I sad grimly. Holland cocked her head and gave me a funny look. “These are the best years of your life,” she said in an auditorium voice. Then the phone rang and she snapped it up and repeated it into the phone before pressing the receiver to her ear. – pg. 73-74 Holland + Nick
- “This is another test isn’t it? Like Halloween.” My eyes were burning from the inside. I hated that she could do that to me. I was trying to be careful with her and she was breaking up with me. “So how does this one work? If we don’t talk for three months, you’ll be my friend?” – pg. 120 Nick + Sasha